
劃清界線,是保護自己最重要的一道防線。
「沒有關係,因爲他原生家庭不好⋯⋯」
「我不知道,我不敢表達我的意見,我怕說了會被討厭。」
各種出自於自卑而不敢表達自己意見,或是各種模糊地帶,都能有意無意讓一個人做出傷害你的舉動,因此劃清界線的背後是要清楚自己「我要什麼。」這點非常重要。因此知道自己要什麼,是劃清界線的首要條件。
知道自己能跨越自卑說出想望,知道自己就是想吃麻辣鍋,不想吃草莓蛋糕。知道自己就是不喜歡這張圖的排版,原因是因為什麼。
創造力才有可能慢慢滋長出來,更加以清晰的生活,也因這靈感,我畫下一個女妖,她的頭髮長出了雙手,保護自己的身及心與靈,以及重要小花,還有蛻變的蝴蝶,隨著時序推移,慢慢成長成新的模樣。
今晚 23:20 月亮入天蠍,若有沈重的感覺被翻攪,能多做與水元素有關的療癒,讓情緒釋放出來,身體會比較舒服唷!
Drawing clear boundaries is the most important line of defense in protecting oneself.
"It's okay, because he comes from a bad family background..."
"I don't know, I don't dare to express my opinion, I'm afraid of being disliked if I say something.
"Various forms of self-doubt that prevent one from expressing their opinions, or various gray areas, can unintentionally lead a person to act in ways that hurt you. Therefore, behind drawing boundaries is the need to clearly understand "what do I want."
This point is very important. Thus, knowing what you want is the primary condition for establishing boundaries. Knowing that you can overcome self-doubt to express your desires, knowing that you want to eat hot pot instead of strawberry cake. Knowing that you simply do not like the layout of this image, and understanding the reasons behind it.
Creativity can slowly begin to flourish, leading to a clearer life. Inspired by this, I drew a female demon whose hair has grown into hands,
protecting her body, mind, and spirit, as well as an important little flower and a transforming butterfly, gradually growing into a new form as time passes.Tonight at 23:20,
the moon enters Scorpio. If you feel a heavy sensation being stirred up, engaging in healing related to the water element can help release emotions, making your body feel more comfortable!